Ovak Stonecrusher wrote: The player being asked always has the option to request GM verification instead.
That is all I ask, personally. They have the right to ask and I have the right to say no, ask a GM to verify the legality of my actions. This being said, I trust the GMs not to explain to asking PC WHAT the particular reason for said effect is, just that it is legal, since I consider that offering the particular player an unfair advantage against another.
I'm sorry, but there is a lot of cutthroat politics in this game, no one is going to look at MY character sheet so they can find out how many lifepoints I have, what abilities and resists I have, and what kind of equipment is available to me. And even if your intentions aren't nefarious in wanting to see that sheet, you just can't unlearn that information. There are plenty of people who aren't who/what they say they are...
As an example, let's say you ask to see Drochan's character sheet, and you see he is a master assassin, but in-game, Drochan says he is but a humble fisherman, and everything he does leads you to believe that is true. He has never used his assassin skills in front of others as far as you have seen, so you didn't know he was an assassin, except for his character sheet. You find several people murdered and the clues say an assassin committed the crime. Going to be really hard to pretend you didn't see Drochan's character sheet, since he's already being evasive about his skills.
Don't know how much good investigate is nowadays with the new political changes, but why use investigate to see how much money someone is pulling in when you can just look at their character sheet?
It's a break as bad as trying to pretend you didn't see someone coming in using passwall. You just can't pretend you don't know it easily, or at least, most people can't. You will have a hard time NOT reacting to information you know.
One of the other situations avoided by not revealing tags is "Oh, it's XXX potion? I can just use X ability to take it off of them, then." or "Oh, that means X ability will do XX damage against them." Don't tell me PCs won't do this, because they will.
Certain people would have NEVER been able to pull off some of the things they did if they had been obligated to reveal to other players their character sheets, used potion tags or magic item tags. Now, maybe this is an attempt to get away from that PvP mentality that has seeped into the gameplay, so I can sort of understand that.
I rarely have anything to hide, since I'm not good at sneaky anyway, but I will always fall under the "ask a GM" legality, because since we have no metagaming, all the information on a character sheet and tags are legal tender to be used against you in-game once another PC asks to see it.
It also divides the game into "those with something to hide" vs "those that don't mind letting everyone see it." If tag/sheet checking becomes a big thing, it's possible we'll see a "Player won't let me see their character sheet, they have something to hide, so we have to be against them."
I'm sure everything will be fine, I'm just saying I will personally probably frequently say no on non-staff tag checks, unless I have a question on how a potion or such actually works, and I will probably always say no on character sheet checks. As long as that is my right, I guess I'm fine with it.
I consider a player looking at another players sheet, or demanding to see their tags a cheese weasel move, honestly, but I won't snap at them, I will send them to you.
Self (note: SELF) policing, sure.
Self enforcing, yes.
Other-player educating? You bet.
Other-player enforcing? Absolutely not.