**ATTENTION: Incoming BRUTAL honesty. I am sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings in the process. Please do not think I am ranting angry about something or someone, regardless of my sentence structure here, thanks!
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Hmm, my opinions:
1.) It's a fantasy game. I think if we can handle fucking cannibalism, rape, torture, violence, racism, slavery, murder and so and and so forth, but we can't handle role-played religious themes, then I think that says more about our own insecurities regarding our own beliefs which may not be so "unshakable" as we want to believe they are if they are threatened by something that supposedly isn't even real within our own beliefs, because it certainly isn't being done for "everyone's" comfort.
For instance, I personally think RAPE or other forms of coerced sexual activities (such as someone being charmed) are pretty fucking vile, but I know of at least one (and now that I think about it, more) situation that involved some sicko evil NPC character that kidnapped, abused and raped another NPC character (albeit off-scene). We didn't put an artificial wall up saying "No eluding to rape. It's just not possible in our world. It doesn't exist and it doesn't happen and no one has ever thought of it, EVER."
I find it odd that my above examples (which in the real-world I find ungodly horrific) are somehow more acceptable to be exposed to in a fantasy world than roleplayed religious beliefs.
2.) I really feel like the "no religion" thing turns into a sort of artificial 4th wall that people go OOC to tell someone: "There is no religion/gods in Phanterra." Rather than a "let's keep it subtle" or "You can believe whatever you want, but it's not supported by the game world."
3.) It's allowed. It's just allowed...err...inconsistently. For example, Donovan's "light" worshiping. Maybe it was allowed because it "fits" Chris' real-world Christian beliefs similarly to Tolkien's? Just for thought on how it APPEARS.
After all, the word "witch-hunter" is allowed with no effort to turn it into something else when it could just as easily be called Magic-Hunter. Sure, I suppose you have to draw a line somewhere, but I think it's funny that "Druid" and "Witch" are allowed to be utilized as is when they are existing religious traditions. It's like you are saying "I don't want someone to offend MY religious beliefs, but it's ok because these aren't MY religious beliefs."
4.) Doesn't matter if it's "real" or not. People make up things to believe in all the time and it's about as entrenched as breathing.
You're somewhat wrong on the LOTR thing there, Chris. While it doesn't affect the story, overmuch (and indeed, Tolkien was a Christian), there were the Maiar (sp?) and the Ainiur, and assorted godlike beings under the "overgod." I have a hard time buying that none of them were ever worshiped. Tolkien (and other folks) can stress the point that they weren't gods, but if they existed in the setting as powerful beings and were mentioned, people worshiped them whether they were answered or not, the same as people worship/ped elemental forces or ANY religion in our own world.
5.) To be fair, while I've heard PLAYERS say "No Religion!" to other players, I've never heard a GM IN-GAME say no or to stop because it might have offensive religious implications. I only ever hear it commented on by GMs on the boards.
6.) It's not a rule in the book, for what that's worth, so I don't feel obligated to consider it as such in my roleplaying and do not let it hinder either my words or my actions. That's what we have safewords for.
7.) When you leave a void, players will fill it with SOMETHING whether you like it or not.
8.) I said it before, I'll say it again: SAFEWORDS. They get reviewed at EVERY game on meeting. The game isn't edited for "non-offensiveness" because we all prefer different styles of play. I am very accepting, and am entertained by, even the darker sides of storytelling when I PCing. USE THE SAFEWORDS IF SOMETHING IS BOTHERING YOU.
9.) I don't have to play. I'm not forced to be here. I can quit whenever I want (maybe).
BUT, as my closing thoughts: I'd take strong offense with someone coming into MY birthed up from the ground game or story and telling me what I am REQUIRED to do based on their own opinions like it's their decision.
And it's your game, so until I'm told otherwise, you have that right to make things whatever you like, whether I agree with it or not, whether I think you are consistent or fair with this issue or not, and just for the record, I don't and that's ok too.
Good day!